I write this because I am a woman, and this suggestions also only for women, more to those being in question about their husbands feeling toward them.
How to know whether your husband really love you or still love you as it was before he marry you a few/many years ago. These are some of the tests.
1.When he wants to make love to you ( whether he made a date hours before or just a few minute before) try not to say yes or okay, but tell him that you are not wellat that moment, got headache/migraine. Watch his reaction. If he really love you, he will do at least one of this things :
* Forget his passion, and offer you and get you some medicine.
* Forget his passion, and give you a bit of massage on the head/back.
* Forget his passion, and offer you a cup of tea/or any drink you like.
* Forget his passion, let you go to sleep.
* Forget his passion, say something nice to you
( This is not applied if your husband is a quiet person from the start of your relationship )
2. You are not good cook, but you really to try to make something for dinner at certain day you thing is good day, following a recipe you find at your new magazine. Watch his reaction after eating your food.
The good reaction you hope is that he will eat it ( a bit, a half, or the lot ), plus he comments that he thanks to you for your effort and some other comments that encouraging.
3. If you work full time 5 times a week , he will never wake you up early morning just to make him a cup of tea/coffee.
4.When you ask him occasionally about why he love you, he will always have the same answer/s, even the arrangement of the sentences/the way he say it to you . That is the answer the first time you ask him about it.( These answer are not included : because you are beautiful, rich, nice, famous, from good stock/family.
You have to find answer that even himself not straightforward describe it ( example : 1.Because when I saw you the first time I felt drawn. There is something in your eyes bla.. bla.. bla… . 2. Because I fell in love with you after a couple of months regularly talk to you. You are incredibly bla… bla… bla.. The answer should be something about your inner side character/personality)
Avoid/suspect when his answer is short like you are beautiful, because after your first child is born, he will then talk to his male friends that you are now fat, not that ‘delicious’ anymore. He tries to find a reason why he look to other girls. Believe me I heard those conversation many, many times !
